TRUST. What is that to be trusted and trust someone? It takes a lot of courageous to trust and to be trusted. Somehow, we deal with trust in our lives.
We have to trust our friends that they don't betray us. We have to trust our team mates to finish the work on time with good quality. We trust our parents to take good care of us and they trust us to do the same to them when they need us. A couple has to trust each other so that they can move on with marriage, sharing their lives and spend the rest of the time together.
A pair of ring is a symbol of trust. It is to reflect to others that someone belonged to someone else and that someone is putting in his/her trust and commit to the other party. It takes a lot of courageous to trust. However, if there is no trust, even the ring is put on, there will be a time where the ring has to be removed.
Imagine your parent don't trust you anymore, they doubt and they deny whatever you tell them, will u be happy?
Imagine your team mates told you he/she has finished the work and will hand in on time but in the end you saw them rushing the assignment at the very last hour of deadline... will you trust them anymore?
Imagine you caught your partner cheating and again you doubt whatever he/she said to you.. do you think you will be happy? And what if you doubt and you go and spy on them without letting them know... one day they find out. Do you think they will be happy ? It will end with tragedy, sadness and disappointment. He/she will lost his/her trust and hope on the other party...
It takes more than courageous to say yes to someone. It takes more than one mistake to ruin the trust. Your parent will trust you even though u lie for the first few times. One day, this is gonna end.
It takes more than love to get married. TRUST is a very important component. Imagine the wife knows that the husband is actually not trusting her.. do you think that there is still a meaning in it?
I don't like marriage. It not only takes up a lot of time, it will also make a mess in some part of life. Commitment and trust is something not measurable by a piece of paper or a ring, or money. It takes time to build up trust to people around you and can be ruin in seconds.
this is life.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Ahrg~
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Trust is indeed a fragile thing. It takes years and years to build and consolidate, but one moment will ruin it all. That is so true. I have experienced it first-hand, and it wasn't pretty.
Haven't talked to you for such a long time!
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